Having just begun this blogging adventure, I’m mentally filing events that might be blog-worthy. Not having written in a week, I had quite a few blog-worthy bits in the queue. Upon review, many of my week’s thoughts and experiences caught me with unusual amusement. Apparently, I really don’t like a lot of things and I have a strong opinion about most everything. Even the stuff that doesn’t harbor a strong reaction from me has a designation of acceptable/unacceptable, tasteful/insulting, and the like. I’ll call the items with a positive designation green (green for go/good) and those with a negative designation red (red for stop/bad). Having a good day used to be dependent on how few reds I encountered. If too many then forget it- horrible day. That’s not generally true anymore and while I still have pretty intense reactions to things, my resulting emotion and behavior tends to look more like mood swings than melt downs. I think I’ll just share some of the highlights from the past week, both red and green. Here we go…
Reds (in no particular order)
1. Drivers that stare you down after you make a mistake. You didn’t think my horror struck face and squealing tires were awareness enough? Plus now I’m just pissed off at you and your lack of attention to the road!
2. Cashiers that assume everyone in line is there to make them a social visit. We’re not. We want to get to where we want to get ASAP and we want you to do your job well so as not to delay us.
3. TV shows that cast every character as a complete idiot. Especially adult cartoons where every character sounds like Bevis, Butthead or Napolean Dynamite. The voice alone is enough for me to decide they have low self-esteem, social disorders and unresolved childhood issues. Oh and using the one guy to do all the voiceovers is a total distraction.
4. Tappers. My husband is a tapper. Why!??!!! Why??!!!!! I can hear that!!!!!!!!!
5. The mirror that always looks back at you fat. Who made those mirrors and why did they not just melt it and start over when they looked into it and knew that it was the worst representation of themselves they’d ever seen?! I vote we all destroy such mirrors and in their spots leave pleading notes that ask the future replacement mirrors be either honest or can improve the truth (just a little). For the sake of sanity, man!
Greens (also in no particular order)
1. When you watch someone for just a minute that is completely unaware of being observed, even if they turn out doing something dumb or weird. I love that outside, anonymous view. Seems so pure.
2. Getting the giggles. No matter where I am or who’s seeing it happen, the giggles are always a good time. I’ve been so embarrassed by the complete loss of control on many occasions but I’m always better for it. Plus, it’s a total adrenaline rush and a giggle buddy boosts the fun!
3. When kids imitate their parents with that grown up tone and those grown up words but totally work it as their own. Too funny. My 2 ¾ year old niece wiggled herself into a seat before a snack this Sunday and asked me, “Should we pray?” In that moment she was my sister. Classic.
4. Being cuddled. No matter my mood, hugs are the best. My mom’s are comforting, long and snug. My husband’s are moving, swinging side to side and strong. My sister’s are joyous, she hangs off to the side and laughs. My brother’s are double winners, strong and soft all in one. My dad’s are classic, always firm with a pat. Love hugs.
5. When you wake up thinking it’s Monday and then realize it’s Sunday and you have a whole 24 hours until you have to go to work again. It feels like a huge time refund and it’s all for fun and relaxation. At least for a few minutes. That’s such a great feeling.
I’m happy to report that while all the reds were a part of my last week, so were the greens. It’s been a great week and this has been a fun exert. I hope you enjoyed it too!